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Why People Pleasing Is a Freedom Problem, Not a Generosity Problem

By Alyssa Herzig, M.A., PhD In This Article: – Why We Repeatedly Feel Unsafe in Relationships – How Insecure Attachment Patterns Form – Why Relationship Anxiety Keeps Repeating – How to Create Relational Safety from Within – Frequently Asked Questions Introduction: Unsafety in Relationships There are many reasons why we can feel unsafe in a relationship. In this article, I want to focus on one very common — and very important — reason: the fear that having a feeling or a